Wednesday, June 20, 2012

My Cross To Bear by Gregg Allman





Gregg Allman’s close friends have always called him Gregory. His brother, the guitarist Duane Allman, who died in a motorcycle accident in 1971, called him “baybrah,” a contraction of “baby brother.”

MY CROSS TO BEAR

By Gregg Allman
With Alan Light. Illustrated. 390 pages. William Morrow. $27.99.
But on tour in the late 1960s and the 1970s, the heyday of the Allman Brothers Band, when he wrote songs like “Midnight Rider,” “Melissa” and “Whipping Post,” Mr. Allman’s nickname was Coyotus Maximus. Women threw themselves at him, and he devoured them. He didn’t have the heart to turn many away.

One of the great virtues of “My Cross to Bear,” his slightly better-than-average rock memoir, is how frank Mr. Allman is about the perks of being a tall, blond, intricately bewhiskered white rock god in skinny jeans who can bellow the blues like a black man. “Foxy ladies,” he recalls, wheezily, “there was oodles of them.”

Mr. Allman’s book is so wriggling with amorous women that it can resemble a Feydeau farce performed mostly in panties. The band’s early road manager made a chart with the legal age of consent in every state, and made sure each member had a copy.
“I would have women in four or five different rooms,” Mr. Allman says about hotels. “Mind you, I wouldn’t lie to anybody; I’d just say, ‘I’ll be right back.’ ”

“My Cross to Bear” has a lot of absurd tour stories, so many that you’re not surprised to learn that the Allman Brothers were, in no small part, the inspiration for the band in Cameron Crowe’s excellent and fond rock film, “Almost Famous.” These tales, tall and small, have been untangled and crisply ironed by Mr. Allman’s co-writer, the music journalist Alan Light (who often writes for The New York Times).
Mr. Allman’s story, like his singing voice, has a lode of heartbreak in it. When Mr. Allman was just 2, growing up in Nashville, his father, a man who had stormed the beaches of Normandy during World War II, was shot in the back and killed by a stranger to whom he’d offered a ride home from a bar.

The death of his brother, Duane, was a bigger blow. A year apart, they were best friends. They attended military school together, and both learned to play guitar on a Silvertone that Gregg purchased for $21.95 at Sears. Duane was the preternaturally talented one. In 2003 Rolling Stone magazine voted him the second-best guitarist of all time, after only Jimi Hendrix. One of their early bands, founded in 1965, was named the Allman Joys. A few months earlier, Gregg Allman had dodged fighting in Vietnam by (a) studying a foot chart; (b) getting drunk; (c) drawing a target on his moccasin; and (d) blasting a hole in his foot with a shaky pistol. His aim was perfect.

When the musicians that became the Allman Brothers came together, Mr. Allman wanted to call the band Beelzebub. Duane wanted to name it after something trippy from “The Lord of the Rings.” Cooler heads prevailed.

The band adopted an early mushroom logo, a reference to the members’ early fondness for psychedelic mushrooms; these seriously loosened up the creative process. “That music,” he writes, “would come oozing out of our band.”

Duane Allman died just as the Allman Brothers’ third album, “At Fillmore East,” was climbing the charts, putting them permanently on the map. (They’d already recorded a bit of their classic 1972 LP, “Eat a Peach.”) Mr. Allman is bereft that his brother missed most of the band’s ride.
“We were like Lewis and Clark, man — we were musical adventurers, explorers,” he writes. “We were one for all and all for one.”

Not all of the comedy and excess in “Cross to Bear” is sexual. When the band walked for the first time onto its biggest touring airplane, a Boeing 720, someone had spelled out “Welcome Allman Bros” in cocaine on the bar.

There’s comedy, too, for us, if not for Mr. Allman, in watching him sign away the publishing rights to some of his own songs. This is such a stalwart clichĂ© of rock stardom that you wonder, how does anyone still fall into this particular hole? It’s like watching the cute girl in the horror movie decide to go down into the basement to see what that hideous thumping is.

There are good cameos by other musicians. Aretha Franklin appears long enough to drop a five-gallon jug of pickled pigs’ feet on a hotel lobby floor while wearing a mink coat. The musician Dr. John ruins Mr. Allman’s Hammond organ by throwing handfuls of “this New Orleans voodoo stuff called gris-gris” into it.

Mr. Allman fell in love with Cher, the third of his six wives, to whom he was married from 1975 through 1979, because, he writes, “she smelled like I would imagine a mermaid would smell.” I gather the sex was O.K. too. “She was hot to trot, man,” Mr. Allman drawls, “and we made some serious love.”

The author is aware that he is a difficult man, one who has behaved at times like a jackass. He was an alcoholic and a drug addict who finally got clean in the late 1990s. “Every now and then,” he admits, “I’ll think of all the hell I caused other people over the years.”

One man he’s not interested in apologizing to is Dickey Betts, the Allman Brothers’ mercurial longtime guitarist, who left the band (or was fired, depending on whom you believe) in 2000. Mr. Allman and Mr. Betts battled for control of the band after Duane Allman died, and bruised feelings linger. “Dickey ain’t no devil,” Mr. Allman writes. “He’s just a mixed-up guy.”

“Cross to Bear” has interesting things to say about racism and being a Southern rock band in the 1970s. One of the group’s longtime drummers, Jaimoe, is black, and together they’ve witnessed their share of racial tension.

Mr. Allman has advice for musicians. The Allman Brothers play loud, and he’s kept his hearing by staying stage right, which he calls “out of the line of fire.” He’s learned to take care of his voice too. He took notes when a mentor, the musician Floyd Miles, said to him: “When you know you’re going to scream, you lay your head back, which spreads your vocal cords real wide, and when the scream comes out, it barely nicks your vocal cords. You don’t want to do too much of that, because there’s soft, tender meat down there.” In 2010 Mr. Allman had a liver transplant. He has hepatitis C. He’s got arthritis. These days the women mostly ask for Derek Trucks, the Allman Brothers’ young ponytailed guitarist. But Mr. Allman sounds at peace with himself.

“If I fell over dead right now,” he says, “I have led some kind of life."

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